My Week That Was (W/E 8th March 2014)

On Sunday, we went shopping and I took Thomas to McDonald's for lunch for a treat. Thomas and Daniel both got balloons. Daniel did a very good job of looking after them!

On Monday, we went to toddler signing and to my MIL's. Here is Daniel before we went out for the day

On Tuesday, we ate lots of pancakes!!

On Wednesday, Stuart's car went into the garage to be mended so we got a new Audi A4 to drive for a couple of days. It was lovely. I want one!!

On Thursday, Thomas went to nursery as Incey Wincey Spider for World Book Day

On Friday, Thomas did some housework!

Today, Daniel is 8 weeks old. Where did that time go?

 

 

 

A Postcard from Team Honk in Tanzania

Team Honk is about bloggers raising money and awareness for Comic Relief. To celebrate International Women's Day #iwd2014, Tanya, Annie and Penny are in Tanzania finding out how donations to Sport Relief last year have created female entrepreneurs and #lastingchange for women, their families and communities and beyond – rippling out #lastingchange in Africa.

This is Forestiana and she's a wine processor. Her business has grown from making 20 litres of wine a month to 250 litres after receiving help from The Gatsby Trust, Tanzania. Vital business skills, technical training and mentoring has given Forestina the confidence to think big and plan her businesses growth. It means she can work from home and her family has a better quality of life – she also employs 2 others. Forestina helps train up other women to help them with their businesses. She showed us her grape wine and hibiscus wine with great pride.

To keep raising money for Comic Relief please support the #teamhonkrelay. I was part of Team Honk Birmingham and you can read what I did here. Please donate here. Any support is greatly appreciated :-)

 

Are You MAD For Jo’s Nursery?

Nominations are now open for the MAD (Mum & Dad) Blog Awards 2014 and for the first time ever, I am asking if you would consider voting for me. I know my blogging has been a haphazard of late, due to being heavily pregnant and looking after a newborn, however I hope you have enjoyed what you have read. I look forward to telling you about all our adventures as a family of four especially as the weather gets warmer and I am planning on giving Jo's Nursery a fresh new look in the next few months too.

If you would like to nominate me (or any of the many other lovely blogs out there), then the nomination form is here. I am eligible for the Best Pregnancy Blog, Best Blog Photography and Blog of the Year categories. Voting closes on 14th March.

Thank you as ever for your support and for reading Jo's Nursery :-)

 

Silent Sunday (2nd March 2014)

 

 

My Week That Was (W/E 1st March 2014)

On Sunday, Thomas tried a Krispy Kreme doughnut for the first time

On Monday, I had a bad day with everyone being ill in the house and my friend Becci very kindly brought me some chocolate to make me feel better

On Tuesday, we went to soft play and Thomas played with his friend Pippa

On Wednesday, I had a really busy day so only got chance to get this quick photo of Daniel

On Thursday, Thomas made a pig biscuit at nursery
On Friday, Daniei had lots of cuddles with my friend Kristina

Today, Daniel has enjoyed even more cuddles with Grandad Mick (my Dad)

 

 

 

 

 

Make Half Term Journeys Fun With Britax!

With half term underway, families up and down the country will be setting off to visit friends and grandparents far and wide to make the most of their time off with the children. So begins… the car clean, the car seat checks, route planning and packing

As many parents know, packing a small bag for the car to keep the children entertained for a couple of hours en route should also be high on the list of priorities, even for the older children!

Fully charged electronic devices? Check. Snacks? Check. Emergency Wipes? Check. Favourite cuddly toy? Check. Pen, pencil and notebook? Check. For even longer journeys, as parents, you'll know that you also need a repertoire of songs, car games and a LOT of patience. BRITAX wanted to lend parents an extra helping hand with these fantastic printable activity sheets for children four years and older.

As you head out of the city or countryside to hit the motorway, BRITAX are challenging your younger children's bright little minds to spot key landmarks, planes and animals. With a visual printable 'I Spy' sheet, they will just need a pencil to circle what they spot and can also colour in the images while they play! Older children are also encouraged to put their literacy skills to the test and create short sentences featuring everything they have spotted on their journey. No mess, no fuss, just fun. For the older travelers BRITAX also have a 'Number Detective' worksheet to challenge their minds with harder, logic solving questions which will even give parents a run for their money if the kids get stuck. These printables guarantee at least 15 minutes extra peace on your journey!

 

 

Daniel’s Birth Story

After a fairly uneventful pregnancy until 36 weeks, when I was moved onto consultant care due to concerns over baby's size (I was discharged from them at 39 weeks) and managing to get through Christmas and New Year without an early appearance of baby, I was ready for the end at 40 weeks. I had a sweep with my midwife at 1.15pm on Friday 10th January at 40 weeks and 1 day pregnant. After returning home and sitting down for a bit, I started getting some strong irregular cramps at 2.15pm. After another hour of pretending to be normal (looking after the toddler and doing housework) and breathing through the contractions when they came, I realised that it was definitely labour and started calling the family to sort out who would look after Thomas, our 2 year old. My dad came over to stay the night with Thomas in case we needed to leave for the hospital in the middle of the night. I called our doula, Manie from Opal Aura and told her not to rush but to come over when she could as things were moving up a gear now with the contractions coming stronger and closer together.

Once my dad arrived and Thomas was settled, I went upstairs, put the tv on and started bouncing/rocking on my birth ball and had my TENS machine fitted. Manie arrived shortly after and we started timing the contractions. They were still slightly irregular but were averaging between 5-7 minutes apart and 40-60 seconds long. I called the hospital and told I would hopefully be on my way there soon but was happy at home for the moment. However at about 7.15pm (approx) things started to slow down, I bounced on the ball more, did some walking around and some squats to try and get things moving again but it all stopped. We all agreed it would be a good idea to get something to eat and some rest. Manie assured us that things would probably start happening again in the middle of the night.

During the night, I woke with a couple of minor contractions but nothing else happened. At 6am on the morning of Saturday 11th January, I was woken up every 15 minutes (approx) with a series of contractions. At 7.20am, I woke my husband up and told him things were happening again. Fortunately my dad had stayed overnight so we didn't need to worry about Thomas. At around 8.30am, we called Manie, told her to stay at home for the moment and that we would get in touch again when we needed her. I laboured at home with my TENS Machine until 10.30am but by then the contractions were coming every 3-4 minutes and lasting about a minute a time. We collected Manie on the way and made our way to the hospital by 11am.

Once in hospital, we discovered that Manie was not allowed to join us for the moment as I was considered not to be in established labour and could only have one birth partner in triage with me. I went to triage and they said I was 3cm dilated. They said I should go back home and come back again later. However, my blood pressure was high so they decided to monitor the baby for 40 minutes and make sure all was ok.

During the 40 minutes of monitoring, I was made to lie down and my contractions slowed down again. (They had slowed down in the car journey and took a little while to build back up.) Once the monitoring was complete, I was able to start moving round and the contractions increased again. I also used a contraction oil on my clothes, made by Manie to help encourage the contractions to speed up too.I started to struggle to talk through them now. A doctor came in and saw had bad I was contracting and agreed that I should stay in so they could monitor my blood pressure.

After another long delay, I was taken to a high risk delivery room and I met the midwife, Claire who was going to stay with us for the duration of her shift (6 hours). Claire was my saviour! She had been to the same pregnancy yoga classes that I had and understood that I wanted a active birth with as much movement as possible. She gave me a hug and told me everything would be ok. She even said that they could bring in a Bradbury couch or any other equipment from low risk that I wanted to have to help me give birth. I could also have mobile monitoring for the baby with a Doppler so I would not be confined to a bed. She also understood that I needed my doula in the room as soon as possible. Manie had been sat outside the maternity unit for nearly 3 1/2 hours at this point and had been talking to us via text message. I consented to another examination a hour ahead of when it was due as I felt I was in established labour. Claire checked and I was around 6-7cm mark. This made me feel much better and I was happy that someone was finally listening to my wishes.

Manie was personally collected by Claire from outside the maternity unit and brought to my room. Once Manie came in, Stuart went off to get some food and have a break. At this point, the baby gave me a rest too in between contractions and I was able to get some energy back. Manie and Stuart then swapped over again so Manie could get something to eat too. Once they were both back in the room, operation get baby out moved up to the next level!

At this point, I was still using the TENS machine, walking around the room, doing hip rotations and using my birthing ball. I was still coping incredibly well with the contractions which surprised me. I used the rectangle breath throughout my labour as taught by Nicola of Yoga Mamma Karma Baby (short breath in and long breath out) and used my visualisation of steps (each step brought me closer to the baby) to get me through. However, at 6.25pm I went to the loo and then had two massive contractions virtually straight after each other. I could barely stand up and had to grab on the sink for support. I asked for gas & air and Claire was buzzed to sort it. After checking in the loo, it was decided that my hind waters had gone and I hadn't really needed to use the loo at all!!

Claire and Manie both encouraged me to walk round using Stuart for support rocking and rotating my hips as it was agreed my labour was going slower than expected. We did little circuits near the bed so I could get to the gas & air as and when required at the peak of each contraction. By 8.25pm, my labour was still not progressing fast enough so I consented to Claire breaking my fore waters in an effort to get things moving. The contractions immediately moved up another notch and I still kept on moving around to get the baby in the correct position.

By 9.15pm/9.30pm (approx), I started making low sounds and had the urge to push. By this point, I was on all fours leaning against the Bradbury couch. Claire introduced me to Tina who was going to take over from her when she finished her shift soon. I felt the baby's head coming down and possibly starting to crown but I wasn't sure. A birth stool magically appeared from somewhere. I was sat on the stool with Stuart supporting me whilst sitting on the birth ball behind me. I kept pushing for what felt like ages and then all of a sudden, Manie and Claire started shouting the words 'head, head'. I kept on pushing throughout this massive contraction and the next thing I knew, a baby was being placed in my arms and Daniel Michael Niall had been born. He was born so suddenly that Claire (who had just been due to finish her shift at 9.45pm) did not have chance to get her gloves on. We were just glad that she caught him!!

Daniel Michael Niall

Born 9.48pm Saturday 11th January 2014

Weight 6lbs 11oz

 

 

 

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